Bad Things Must Happen to You For Good Things to Happen

As many of us are feeling the repercussions ofsaying this). Think about it, if not for pain,
one of the worst recessions in recent history, Isuffering and evil, will people turn to God for
would like to share with you my philosophy on thesalvation? It is during hard times like these that
EQUATION OF LIFE. If you studied Math,people pray and go to places of worship more.
Chemistry, Economics, Accounts or any one ofIf you watched the matrix, the 'architect'
these mathematical topics before, you wouldmentions that the equation has to balance for the
understand that equations have to balance.matrix to exist. In order for Neo (the Hero) to
For every good, there must be a bad. For everyexist, there must be his opposite (i.e. Agent Smith
positive, there must first be a negative. For lightwho was the super bad guy).
to exist, there must first be darkness. For everyThis applies to every aspect of life. If George
market boom, there must first be a crash. ForBush did not screw up the US economy and
you to experience happiness, you must firstdamage the US's reputation so badly, Barack
experience sadness. For you to experience prideObama would not have become the first African
and inspiration, you must first have experiencedAmerican President today. If Al Gore would have
disappointment and adversity. The greater thewon, he would probably have done an OK job and
initial failure and disappointment, the sweeter willthe US would have voted in another white guy.
be the pride of success.At the same time, if Al Gore had become the US
I remember watching the show 'The Pursuit ofPresident 8 years ago, he would not have made
Happyness' where it was based on the true storysuch a positive impact on global warming issues,
of Chris Gardner who went through a verywon an academy award for his documentary and
difficult period of his life. His wife left him, he waswon the Nobel Peace Prize. Again, 'failure' led to
broke, evicted from his home, slept in publicthe the birth of success.
toilets and in homeless shelter, jailed for unpaidIf I did not get kicked out of Primary school
parking tickets and went through a series of(Primary 3) and get rejected from 6 secondary
unfortunate incidents. However, he perseveredschools after my PSLE exams, I would never
where ordinary men would have given up. Finally,have been sent by my parents to learn about
when he got selected to become a stockbrokerNLP. If I did not learn about NLP at the age of 13,
in one of the most prestigious companies on WallI would not have been able to inspire thousands
Street after competing against 20 otherof students through my first book 'I Am Gifted,
candidates, he broke down and shed tears ofSo Are You!' and achieve all the success that I
intense pride and happiness. The fighting spirit thathave today. I would just have been another
the tough situations built within him was whataverage Singaporean stuck in an average job.
gave him the drive to build a multi-million dollarSo, how does this apply to your life? Well, instead
stock broking firm himself. If he did not first goof fearing and feeling lousy because of the bad
through those heartbreaking setbacks, he wouldstuff that happens in your life, get optimistic and
not have become a millionaire.know that there lies a great opportunity that
For there to be God, there must be the devil (Ialways goes along with it.
know some religious people will want to kill me for