Marriage Problems - The Credit Crunch Bites!

p>I recently read an article about military folksshelter, oil, resources in general? Then we wouldn't
having job security during the credit crunch. Theneed money and we wouldn't require war!
soldier's wife who wrote it stated how gratefulAdd that to the global warming problem, (had you
she is that her husband has a safe job duringforgotten that?), and we have surely long passed
these difficult financial times.the day when we simply throw open the doors
I can see where she's coming from, I really can.and our arms and declare "Everyone's welcome
But the whole thing saddened me. The thoughteverywhere!"
that people we love are more valued than everIt is said that Hell is a place where everyone is
risking their lives to "bring home the bacon" inmade to stand around a gigantic cauldron of
case the depression/recession worsens made medelicious food that bubbles away eternally.
think, isn't it time we re-evaluated our whole socialEverybody has a ladle strapped to their wrist that
structure?makes it impossible to bring the food to their
Are our marriage problems really going to bemouth.
resolved or kept at bay because our significantHeaven is said to be exactly the same, except
other is still paid to be part of an organisationthat there everyone feeds each other.
whose purpose is to kill other people? It is a veryWouldn't we have happier marriages if we were
sad day indeed when we are saying "thank Godhappier people? Doesn't it make you feel good
for war." (Because it means "I"m all right, Jack.")when you make someone else feel good? You
I'm not blaming that woman or her husband. I'mcan make them laugh, sort out their boy/girlfriend
sure they are lovely people, and he is a braveproblems, give advice about how to cook a
guy whom we would dub a hero. It isn't them, ordinner, send a card or an email ... the ways to
the countless others who must be in similarmake people happy are without number, and
circumstances.every one of them will make you feel good. Most
We need a whole shift in our cultural and politicalof them cost nothing too.
thinking.So why do we think that if you have a husband,
The fact is there is enough food and shelter forwife or partner who risks his or her life in the
everyone on this planet. There is only one worldbusiness of taking the lives of others makes our
with lumps of land on it that somebody sometimeexistence better? How can that solve anyone's
claimed chunks of for themselves and thenmarriage problems?
became prepared to kill other people if anyoneSomeone else's husband may not be coming
else tried to get it from them, or had somehome in Afghanistan or Iraq or somewhere that
fundamental belief about how to live that wasn't"we" don't like right now. This is not the way to a
shared by the folks on a neighbouring lump ofhappy marriage or to resolve marriage problems!
land!Call me naive and utopian, but frankly, all the
Now that the credit crunch is here, shouldn't weother choices seem pretty dark right now.
be looking at sharing everything: land, food,Anyone else got any thoughts?